Being a caring and generous person is always a turn on for me. I'm much more attracted to girl you could call "sweet" than any other personality trait.
We talking the opposite sex? Turn-ons or "cool" factor -educated enough about music knowing the difference between a boy band and an actual group -aware enough to the possibility of life outside earth -appreciation of wildlife and preservation of endangered species -has enough common sense to know in-game strategies in sports -a quick wit -understand why someone likes to collect things and want them in pristine condition -see the humor and irony in ads...and life -acknowledge that free speech doesn't give you a pass to be an a** -the simple lost art of having sensible priorities -the ability and common sense to manage money