Friend Brought Girl, Girl Made Out And Felt Up On Everyone Else But Him

Pretty much self explanatory.


Man, should I tell him? The thing is I met this friend through motorcycles and our age gap is nearly 10 years, so is my other friend which around my age Ill call him Tom.

Hes a much younger dude, that has been sheltered him entire life until he got a bike. I'm talking about staying in palying games his entire youth. So, to explain better, first dates, evem fights anything like that he never experienced. But he is normal, like hes a great friend I love hanging out with dude and much more mature for his age (im 35 hes 27)


Right off the bat, I knew she was a slut, tbh I think everyone did. I just pushed him to get with her because she was older than him and she knew his situation. Come on most women are not going to be thrilled in their late 20s to get a virgin as a date. Not just in terms of sex, just treating right, etc , etc.

But one red flag was she kept trying to get near Tom this is all while we were at his house and his wife is KOd, but his wife is not attractive so I feel like theres some weird swinger type thing oging on with them. Dude is a pretty good looking dude, I can say that as a friend he gets tons of attention and he lives for that attention with women. I Would say its to the point where I dont think i'd ever really bring a date around, not that Id even tolerate a woman that would disrepect me like that but still.

I had other friends previously do the same thing. This friend talks to all of his portential 'dates' to 'help' him. I already told him, you dont need to bring your dates around your friends asap, solidfy the relationship first because if she finds someone else attractive and you're not serious yeah itll back fire.

Which I know is straight b*******, because I've seen that before with 1 other friend. Claimed to help him but im 100% sure they were just talking s*** behind his back and maybe even f***ed coupel times.

There is no business talking to someones SO or whatever, unless you're trying to laying down foundations to hook up with them later. Tom was also talking to this other girl he was trying to previously get with and she was telling him everything. I'm like wow, just red flags. Like wtf you would never want a friend talking to your girl about your problems, its mad suspect and opens up to cheating and ultiamtely I would feel betrayed.

I dont know just want other people's 2 cents. Outside of this I got love for both of my friends.

 

Stay loyal
Wear condoms
Find the right one at church

 

well he knows and ifigures out i was the only one that made out with her. well it is what it is, she never shouldve been brought back to the homies place anyways ( she somewhat did this last time with one friend but we thought maybe she was fucekd up but she was feeling up on every dude that night.)